Personality is the sum total of ways in which an individual reacts and interacts with others.
It is generally defined as the deeply ingrained plus relatively enduring patterns of thought, feeling and behavior.
In fact when one refers to personality, it generally implies to all what is unique about an individual. The characteristics that makes one stand out in the crowd.
Personality is the sum total of individual’s psychological traits, characteristics, motives, habits, attitudes, beliefs and outlooks. The term personality has not been defined in a congruent way. Personality distinguishes you from other people and defines your general nature.
Different people have different personalities.
A person’s personality consists of psychological characteristics which are the determinants of his or her personal preferences.
Also his or her individual behavior are accounted for.
It stems from person as an individual, it predicts his/her behavior over a range of situations.
Moreover, It does not alter dramatically over time and it distinguishes one person in meaningful ways from another individual as mentioned before.
Personality development:
Personality development is a systematic and continuous attempt to create and promote traits so that one can become an effective and efficient individual.
There are some determinants which can play an effective role to make an eminent personality. For example they may be influenced by external factors like environment or internal factors like hereditary.
Hence graded as major or minor factors by some people.
Here are some determinants which contribute to improve one’s personality but are passive.
If you don’t play an active role to improve your personality, they will not be sharpened.
Now the question is how can you do it?
Well, we have a quick list of suggestions below:
1. Have an attractive personal style to impress anyone, for this the key is self-confidence.
2. Don’t copy anyone-This is very important, remember ,truth always wins.
3. Never doubt yourself and make a conscious effort to stay positive.
4. Read-Read-Read-Read- Books, Blogs, E – Books, Audio Books, Journals, Newspapers etc to increase your Knowledge.
5. Always help someone – Remember this gives you immense pleasure.Remember that sharing is caring!
6. Be responsible and take ownership of your work.Never turn your back towards new things.Remember that Change is Good.
7. Try to be a good listener -This is the key to great learning from others.It makes you patient and wise.
8. We personally recommend you to never speak negative about an individual-this doesn’t add up to your personality and behavior.
9. You have to be updated about your environment – this helps you learn, unlearn and relearn.Keep a track of general news around you.
10. Always try to develop your skill-take online classes, watch videos. They contribute towards your personal learning curve.
11.Never think that you have learnt everything and that you are the best of all. Remember there’s always something that you don’t know and life is all about learning.
12.Improve your vocabulary and communication skills.Work on them if you are weak at it.Learning is growing.
13. Always stay calm and down to earth. This helps you stay connected to your roots and people around you.People will value you if you are good to them.
14. Always dress well. Remember that If you look good , You feel good.That’s the key to confidence too.
15. Be respectful-Towards people, opinions, religions and in general. Remember-everyone is fighting a battle you don’t know about , so always value others.
Conclusion
If you keep our few tips in mind , You will always have a pleasant personality and behavior.
Always stay attached to your roots and build on your skills by learning new things.If you adapt to changes around you , the chances are that you will grow professionally.
On the personal front , learning and evolving helps you stay stable in life.
You have the options of switching careers with the help of a good personal network.
Referrals of known networks are so valuable in this competitive world.
So, if you behave well and develop your personality , it will help you sustain.
Always remember that you can go far if you move with people , but if you can move really fast if you walk alone.
Soon we will catch you u in another write up on tips to improve personality.